Girl Help!!

[puetato89]

j/w what would be a good, romantic day that i could plan for a special girl??

:iono:

im completely clueless when it comes 2 romance..

[puetato89]

not even tomato wants to help me :cry: lol

[mikenacarato]

unless a girl answers...we may never know the answer to this. lol

ask supmet...he knows everything.

[puetato89]

lol this is true,

[mr9865]

I find going to goodwill is always fun

[puetato89]

goodwill as in, salvation army goodwil??

[mr9865]

goodwill as in, salvation army goodwil??

maybe they are not in your area, but its a thrift store.

[puetato89]

yeah, orlando is big for theme parks and poverty,(and keeping it poor lol)

[dvlnblkdrs]

have u tried talking to the girl to find out what she likes?

[puetato89]

well its my ex,(6 year relation ship), she live in bermuda and she is coming 2 visit me, i know her pretty well, but im just not creative when it comes 2 dates

[Kioshi]

My 2 cents, go out to some decent restaurant w/ her for lunch or something. Talk a bit, find out her likes/dislikes (indirectly) and go from there~ :)

Remember each girl is unique, so it all depends whats romantic to her. Skydiving with one might be romantic to her, going to movies, or even playing some video games together, etc....

[puetato89]

true, but i just need some thing that isnt generic

[dvlnblkdrs]

just talk to her and do what she wants to do.. thats it..

[puetato89]

lol i kinda want 2 surprise her, cause all i really know is cars, and i wanna show her i care, with out making her think about me a with a car lol

[puetato89]

shes a really weird gal, she is content with any thing and wowing her would be nice,

[dvlnblkdrs]

u dated this girl for 6 yrs.. u should know her likes

[puetato89]

lol i do, but she changes her mind about things quicker than tamago switches opinions,


how does this sound, going 2 the beach, watch the sunset and watch the stars??
or is that a bit generic?

[Shroomster]

start @ Leu Gardens early in the day before it gets crazy hot, then either a movie or a Millenia mall visit.

or try Gatorland and get her to hold a baby gator and then eat part of one of it's relatives lol.

friend @ work is trying to do Lake Eola and dinner for his anniversary but aside from walking around the lake (with the non-working fountain) there isn't much to do unless somethings going on in one of the verandas or the little performance shell

[Kioshi]

start off w/ the beach, if things go well, move onto staying a bit later and watching the stars...if not, go do something else.

Play it by ear bro. NEVER plan the whole thing out, life takes unexpected turns.....

[puetato89]

took a guy 2 give ma a fantastic answer lol, more ideas pls, btw thanx shroomster, thats why your married and im not lol

[puetato89]

start off w/ the beach, if things go well, move onto staying a bit later and watching the stars...if not, go do something else.

Play it by ear bro. NEVER plan the whole thing out, life takes unexpected turns.....

yall rock!!:thumbsup:

[Shroomster]

lmao I agree with Kioshi partly.....


I start with something planned and move to something unexpected.....

[puetato89]

yeah that happens a lot 2 me 2 but mostly beacuse im a.d.d. lol

[TEHxFALLEN V1.2]

You guys should get drunk, then have sex!

[puetato89]

thats what we usually do lol thats not romantic

[puetato89]

but i dont drink anyways, but she def. can

[Kioshi]

Its not a one night stand dork haha

By the time you get up in the morning Ray, you'll get loads of feedback :)

Plan a camping trip or a 3 day get-a-way vacation. That counts as a surprise right?

[puetato89]

yes it do kioshi:thumbsup:

[yaris-me]

If you love this girl, take her shopping and hold her hand. Agree with her if she thinks it's cute or pretty. Always agree that it looks great in "RED." You can not fail with this!:thumbup:

[2+2]

or try Gatorland and get her to hold a baby gator and then eat part of one of it's relatives lol.


Well you romantic devil lol

[tomato]

not even tomato wants to help me :cry: lol

Well, I'm not an expert in women! lol! :wink: :biggrin:

Seriously, "romantic" is different for each girl, so it's really hard to know what's gonna work without knowing the girl.

What Kioshi said (play it by ear, find out what she wants to do) sounds pretty good.

Usually, romantic means quiet dinner some place nice, flowers maybe? beach is nice too. But now you say she's your ex? :eek::eek: oh, boy now it get's even more complicated!

So you see, that's why I kept quiet. I just don't know. :iono:

Wait a little while and see if the other girls can give you some ideas.

[puetato89]

lol thanx tomato, its VERY complicated,lol

[tomato]

PS. Sex on the beach is not recommended.

[tomato]

lol thanx tomato, its VERY complicated,lol

It always is, with these "EX" :wink:

My ex called me on the phone 2 days ago .... to complain about how hard it is to meet women (!!!) and .... :eek: wanting some advice from me! :rolleyes::rolleyes: :mad::mad: :bs: !!

Yeah "ex" is complicated for sure!

[puetato89]

wtf, hes a dumbass,:thumbdown:

[Kioshi]

Oh man...ex are complicated...especially if they still love you while dating the other.... O_O...

[puetato89]

yeah, it really sux, :frown: thank god this isnt the case... Phew

[PETERPOOP]

fart in her face

[puetato89]

already do, she enjoys it lmao

[puetato89]

j/k btw

[DevilGirl]

Umm, well, as a female, I know what "I" consider to be romantic.

A nice surprise weekend away at a B&B, flowers arranged to be in the room waiting. Oh, and chocolates (but then again, I proudly admit I'm a choclaholic).

But at the same time, I'm perfectly happy spending an afternoon/evening playing video games with my boyfriend.

[TheRealEnth]

This is what you should do, Go to the beach, Go Snorkeling (if shes into that) Then Go take showers then go out to Early dinner.. should be like 6pm by then. Then head out to a place with music or something.

[yarisitis]

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_U84fPuQrKzI/RgBFWfIuE0I/AAAAAAAAAs8/bz-4PM5QXNQ/s320/ducttape.jpg

http://images.asia.ru/img/alibaba/photo/51444763/Rope.jpg

http://www.partytimeonline.com.au/img/p/41-66-large.jpg

[DevilGirl]

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_U84fPuQrKzI/RgBFWfIuE0I/AAAAAAAAAs8/bz-4PM5QXNQ/s320/ducttape.jpg

http://images.asia.ru/img/alibaba/photo/51444763/Rope.jpg

http://www.partytimeonline.com.au/img/p/41-66-large.jpg

VERY VERY romantic there.... :thumbdown:

[Lafiro]

If the girl is interested in you, just ask her a day or two beforehand, what she would want to do.

If you do so, and she isnt 100% into it, she will make an excuse.

Another thing is, don't wait until that day, else your asking for it. And usually a dinner at a restaurant around 5 or 6 is great, leaves room for a movie if she wants right after ;)

And also all this changes when she does answer you, or for that matter, if you know her that is. Because then you may want to take her to a theme park instead of dinner for a day, or something like that. So it all depends on location, climate, and type of person she is.

[tomato]

yah, complicated!

So tell us about her a little bit if you want recommendations.
How long is she staying?
What does she like to do?

[DevilGirl]

yah, complicated!

So tell us about her a little bit if you want recommendations.
How long is she staying?
What does she like to do?

+1. Easier to make recommendations based upon knowledge of the person.

[tomato]

Don't forget to have fun. That's the key, I think.
Instead of focusing on the "romantic" try to do stuff that makes you both happy, so the time you spend together is great, and something that you look back on as a great day.

If you go shopping with her all day but you're miserable, then I don't call that a great date. Try to find stuff you both enjoy doing (well, OK if she needs to go shopping, then by all means, go shopping, but you know what I'm saying).

[TheRealEnth]

these people are bad at ideas

[puetato89]

Umm, well, as a female, I know what "I" consider to be romantic.

A nice surprise weekend away at a B&B, flowers arranged to be in the room waiting. Oh, and chocolates (but then again, I proudly admit I'm a choclaholic).

But at the same time, I'm perfectly happy spending an afternoon/evening playing video games with my boyfriend.

not bad, she does like B&B's

This is what you should do, Go to the beach, Go Snorkeling (if shes into that) Then Go take showers then go out to Early dinner.. should be like 6pm by then. Then head out to a place with music or something.

she lives in bermuda, she snorkeles all the time im sure lol

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_U84fPuQrKzI/RgBFWfIuE0I/AAAAAAAAAs8/bz-4PM5QXNQ/s320/ducttape.jpg

http://images.asia.ru/img/alibaba/photo/51444763/Rope.jpg

http://www.partytimeonline.com.au/img/p/41-66-large.jpg

lmao, but true not very romantic

What's your goal? You wanna get back together with her, just have a good date night, just sleep with her or all the above? How old are both of you? Why did you guys break up? I am assuming it was because one of you moved. :iono:

What ever the answers sounds like its gonna cost you some money. :laugh:


There are some women that just go to clubs to flirt or hit on guys to get them to buy them drinks, try to avoid those ones, they tend to be overly clingy and fairly easy to spot. :bellyroll:

Yes all ov the above lol, were both 20 and its not cause we moved, its actually because she heard from my (ex) best friend that i was trying 2 get with another girl(never cheated on her, ever):wub:

If the girl is interested in you, just ask her a day or two beforehand, what she would want to do.

If you do so, and she isnt 100% into it, she will make an excuse.

Another thing is, don't wait until that day, else your asking for it. And usually a dinner at a restaurant around 5 or 6 is great, leaves room for a movie if she wants right after ;)

And also all this changes when she does answer you, or for that matter, if you know her that is. Because then you may want to take her to a theme park instead of dinner for a day, or something like that. So it all depends on location, climate, and type of person she is.

she is dieng 2 see me which is a good thing:cool:, i would like 2 take her out for dinner, where i dont know, she loves sea food,(but i hate it:frown:)

yah, complicated!

So tell us about her a little bit if you want recommendations.
How long is she staying?
What does she like to do?

shes staying for about 2 weeks i believe,
i know she loves delilah when shes stressed(so i know she wants 2 hear that)
she is big in athletics(running) and i dont run lol
she loves scion tc's
and she loves ME!! (i hope :laugh:)


Don't forget to have fun. That's the key, I think.
Instead of focusing on the "romantic" try to do stuff that makes you both happy, so the time you spend together is great, and something that you look back on as a great day.

If you go shopping with her all day but you're miserable, then I don't call that a great date. Try to find stuff you both enjoy doing (well, OK if she needs to go shopping, then by all means, go shopping, but you know what I'm saying).


:thumbsup: i have fun where ever i go:wink:




man thats alot of quotes lol KEEP IT UP!!!!
thanx everone!!!

[yaris-me]

Decision time. She is coming to decide her future. What is it going to be? Love or good bye? Simple! Tell her you love her and go shopping for a ring.:smile:

[puetato89]

lol i have asked her 2 marry me already, B4 everything happened she said she was gonna think about it, and a month later everything happened and she broke off the engagement:frown:

[lilredrocket]

If she like seafood and you don't then go to a resturant that has seafood and what you like if that is possible. Is she coming just to see you, is she coming with people, is she coming to site see, What is the perpose of her trip?

[puetato89]

2 see me :)

[TheRealEnth]

BRO DO A B AND E ..... A B AND E......... NO NO NOT BACON AND EGGS!

[puetato89]

After all, my girlfriend and I enjoy breakig into abandon houses too.... Haha

lol we did that 2,

BRO DO A B AND E ..... A B AND E......... NO NO NOT BACON AND EGGS!

:bellyroll:

[DevilGirl]

Forget going out to a restaraunt man, if you can cook make her some food and take her outside somewhere pretty for a picnic. You said she is athletic so I assume she is at least somewhat outdoorsy.

I think that making food for her would be much more appreciated than just dropping some bills at a nice restaraunt. (at least that's how my girlfriend is)

This is very true. :bow: I've tried several times to get my boyfriend to make a lunch/dinner/anything for me. I'm not sure if it's that he doesn't know how to cook, or just doesn't want to/won't do it. I think he made me grilled cheese the one time after I had surgery and couldn't cook for myself... But he managed to make mine all nice and black (first one), while his (second to be made) turned out perfectly fine... :thumbdown:


most importantly, from my experiences, don't try to force anything and look like a fool. Sometimes the most enjoyable times with a significant other are the ones that you're not really doing much of anything at all. But most importantly, make sure that she KNOWS how badly you want her to stay with you.

All this is based off of what I know my girl would like... And everyonea different...

After all, my girlfriend and I enjoy breakig into abandon houses too.... Haha

This is also extremely true. Some of the better times we've spent together were taking a hike through a local park, just chillin on the couch watchin a movie or a Tivo'd show, or playin video games (gotta love the Wii!!)

[puetato89]

:thumbsup:

[tomato]

lol i have asked her 2 marry me already, B4 everything happened she said she was gonna think about it, and a month later everything happened and she broke off the engagement:frown:

yeah, see, that's why I'm staying out of that one.

Staying 2 weeks isn't a "date" it's a relationship!

sounds really complicated, too many variables in the equation to be able to come up with good advice IMO.

People can give you ideas about what to do, but even that is no guarantee that what you really want is gonna happen in the future no matter how romantic your dates are... :iono:

I'm getting the feeling that there is something else going on besides just a date, and if that girl broke your :brokenheart: once already, I DNK :iono:

Tom-Dr.Phil-ato

[Kioshi]

This thread amuses me, but I'd like to hear the outcome from the suggestions you took and tried out.

And I have to agree on that w/ you tomato...."no guarantee that what you really want is gonna happen in the future"....

Of course! there's always a missing piece to the whole story/situation. Even w/ my scenario in the past, of course nothing on my behalf, mostly the ex's... ;)

[puetato89]

Tom-Dr.Phil-ato

:bellyroll:

This thread amuses me, but I'd like to hear the outcome from the suggestions you took and tried out.

And I have to agree on that w/ you tomato...."no guarantee that what you really want is gonna happen in the future"....

Of course! there's always a missing piece to the whole story/situation. Even w/ my scenario in the past, of course nothing on my behalf, mostly the ex's... ;)

and yes, its more 2 show her i that she matters, and i do include her as part of my life so...:thumbsup:

i have gotten great responses from every one, lots 2 think about and thats why im glad 2 be on this site because everyone will put their valuable 2 cents in

:thanks:

[Kioshi]

We're always family here, most people at least.

Everyone should find their happiness, those that haven't, from this thread. Pursue, pursue dammit~

When's she coming Ray?

Best of luck :thumbup:

[puetato89]

i think in december 14 or 17, im starting the planning process now, to leave time for money making, and NO mistakes, :)

[Kioshi]

to leave time for money making,
Amen to that....but some girls dont like it when you start spending a lot...i learned that, if they want to pay for stuff themselves, let THEM:wink:

[puetato89]

lol that is true, she does get mad when i dont let her pay for certain things

[DandiDani]

i dont like it when my husband spends a lot of money on me. for an anniversary or w/e i would rather he just get me flowers,card w a lil love letter, and maybe take me out on like a lil picnic than to buy me expensive jewelry or to some overpriced restaurant. but then again im sure some girls would rather have the jewelry,lol. i think the picnic thing is a great idea...just be sure to pick a nice park w maybe a pond or something...and have the picnic in a spot where you can be alone. Also if you cannot cook...i suggest picking up some favorite foods at a deli or something like that instead.dont forget dessert! maybe bring her flowers(her favorite?) when you go to pick her up too. i wouldnt be overbearring tho...you dont want her to feel smothered.:thumbup: be sure that when it is time for her to leave:frown: that you give her something to remember you and your visit together by... maybe a framed photograph of something you did together while she was visiting:iono:.i think that would be sweet.:wub:

[puetato89]

awsome advice about the flowers and framed picture :).. my ex seems 2 be a lot like you dani, Great advice :thumbs up:

[DandiDani]

:thumbup::biggrin:

[Kioshi]

be sure that when it is time for her to leave:frown: that you give her something to remember you and your visit together by... maybe a framed photograph of something you did together while she was visiting:iono:.i think that would be sweet.:wub:

Damn your good. :laugh: I love that suggestion!
I'll remember to give something similar to "her" for her to remember when I go and come back to the states.

[DandiDani]

:laugh:i just love those kind of things. but....since you all are guys^ would you all want to receive gifts like that? or would you prefer electronics and car stuff?i ask cuz his b-day is halloween...

[puetato89]

well me as a car enthusiast, I LOVE CAR PRODUCTS, no matter what it is :) bu then again im special lol

[DandiDani]

didnt you say she was coming close to x-mas????if she is big into the holidays you might use that to your advantage also.i know there are lots of funny holiday plays at our local theaters...if she likes that kind of thing?...maybe put x-mas tree up together too with an ornament you purchase together:iono:

[puetato89]

thats a cute idea, and doesnt invovle much money or effort (im pretty lazy if it has nuthin 2 cars)

[DandiDani]

lol.yeah if shes going to be with you for two weeks you need plenty of things to do. im sure there is a lot of things to do in orlando...not so much where i live:frown:...be sure to ask what she wants to do too. you dont want to plan everything and not let her decide on anything...:thumbsup:

[JumpmanYaris]

Did she mention she is a love therapist lol looks like every one likes ur ideas sucks u the only lady (i think)

[DandiDani]

:eek:ur such a brat:tongue: wait til u get home:evil: :laugh:

[yaris-me]

:laugh:i just love those kind of things. but....since you all are guys^ would you all want to receive gifts like that? or would you prefer electronics and car stuff?i ask cuz his b-day is halloween...

My friend would say when asked by a girl, "Don't bring anything. Just show up naked.":laugh:

[Kioshi]

:laugh:i just love those kind of things. but....since you all are guys^ would you all want to receive gifts like that? or would you prefer electronics and car stuff?i ask cuz his b-day is halloween...

Actually, contemplating on what you said about giving a gift that the other person remembers....its true. But I somehow remember the things that I did w/ the one who i love (activities, not sexual :laugh:), even if it was only for two days.

You could give him electronics, doesn't have to be something related to cars. Figure out what he has broken and is too lazy to replace...then go buy that, that sometimes works:smile:

[puetato89]

Did she mention she is a love therapist lol looks like every one likes ur ideas sucks u the only lady (i think)

:eek:ur such a brat:tongue: wait til u get home:evil: :laugh:

:eek:this thread has been comprimised (runs out the thread:laugh:)

[DandiDani]

lol. i got him something for his car already. not going to say what...obviously. but idk what else to get.

[DandiDani]

My friend would say when asked by a girl, "Don't bring anything. Just show up naked.":laugh:
:laugh:

[puetato89]

or show up naked with a car part, i would :drool: if my ex did that :smile:

[DandiDani]

thats hilarious^lol:laugh:. but im a bit too shy to do something like that:redface:

[puetato89]

What kinda marraige do you have, Your married 2 a boriqua lol

im sure hell love that

[DevilGirl]

^^ so don't show up naked... Show up with the car part in hand, but with a nice bow wrapped around ya, covering just the right places to make his imagination think a lil.... :thumbup:

[puetato89]

that would be awesome and i think he would :drool: as well :biggrin:

[puetato89]

^^ so don't show up naked... Show up with the car part in hand, but with a nice bow wrapped around ya, covering just the right places to make his imagination think a lil.... :thumbup:

Love this idea!!!

[DandiDani]

im just a shy person...but yes im married to a boricua. i love puerto rico. especially the food:rolleyes: i wish i could dance like them tho. he danced with his mom at our wedding...salsa.:wub: i knew he said he could but i had actually never seen him do it before. thanx for the sexy ideas tho...and yes he prolly would like it.:laugh:

[puetato89]

im just a shy person...but yes im married to a boricua. i love puerto rico. especially the food:rolleyes: i wish i could dance like them tho. he danced with his mom at our wedding...salsa.:wub: i knew he said he could but i had actually never seen him do it before.

your lucky 2 be with a hispanic cause were awesome:cool:

[DandiDani]

yea, i kno.lol. where are you from?dominican maybe..?..

[Tamago]

take her to novice school

www.gulfcoastautocrossers.com


she'll love you forever!

[DandiDani]

that sounds like fun

[JumpmanYaris]

You can always play her this Song or the Video :bellyroll:



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WhwbxEfy7fg&feature=related

[puetato89]

yea, i kno.lol. where are you from?dominican maybe..?..

dont listen 2 your hubby, lol:biggrin:

take her to novice school

www.gulfcoastautocrossers.com


she'll love you forever!

she might like that, shes a bit of a tomboy

You can always play her this Song or the Video :bellyroll:



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WhwbxEfy7fg&feature=related


:laugh: nice, thats a great idea, and maybe i should be her mother lover:bellyroll:

[DandiDani]

:laugh:

[TheRealEnth]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xA84qKxqEd8&feature=related play guitar and sing it =D

[puetato89]

lol hell yeah :laugh:

[yaris-me]

Decision time. She is coming to decide her future. What is it going to be? Love or good bye? Simple! Tell her you love her and go shopping for a ring.:smile:

She is choosing you. Play it straight, nothing phony. She wants to know you love her.:wub: From the heart, this something she will remember for the rest of her life. :smile: