i was cheated on for 2 month,wat to do?

[Blenjar]

yes it was a girl...bitch cheated on me for 8 weeks n literally lived in my house for 6 weeks...gosh all the money is all gone.i could had gotten a bodykit n second set of 17s with that, i even brought her back gift from my vacation in northern Africa.

sooo any ideas? i really want to punch her in the face so bad, n her real bf. kick his fukin ass.

grrrrrrr ='(

-- Blen

Edit: well the news is: i really flipped out when i found out more shit about this, i deleted her myspace n now her n her bf treatening to fuk my shit up (my yaris i assume)
wat do i do now? god damn i get fuked n now they wanna fuk my car up...damn italians!
this is getting serious....wat do i dooo

-- Blen

Edit: she did cheat on her *real*bf while she was hanging out with me n my best friend n his best friend. we went camping, she got drunk n taken advantage of. i tried spelling it out to that fukin douchebag but she denies it hahaha wat a cunt (i wasn't part of the rape, i was sleeping while it happen, i stopped it tho)

-- Blen

[Kaotic Lazagna]

dude, that sucks ass, man. i would break it off with her, take back everything you bought her and sell it off to try to make some money back. as for the bf, i kick his ass if he started going out with her after i did.

[cdmyaris]

shit happens...

but, kick that boy ass hard. Make the girl cry and regret. Give her surprise buttsecks. Sorry if its R rated.

[sherryberry]

maybe it's just me but I don't believe that once you've given a gift that it should be taken back. You gave the gift without wanting somethin in return.. unless you were but that's another story.

Anyway, I have been cheated on and let me tell you it hurts like hell for like a bit but eventually, it somewhat gets better. the pain will never fully go away like that bs phrase but it does get better.

And kicking someone's ass never solves anything. You're better than them. Just move no and you will find a girl who respects you and loves you for you. And is also faithful.

[black2yaris]

Come on you knew she was that way ! & you thought she fall for you with all that bling ? .. You got used , you knew deep down she was like that ,that caused you to throw more bling her way.. Get over & move on.. Just don't fall for the next gold digger .

[sherryberry]

oh ya if you kick his ass.. dont' forget you could get thrown in jail or somethin bad could come out of that so I highly suggest not kicking any ass. I've gotten to where I am today without having had to kick any ass, despite the crap I've been handed. And btw, there are nice girls out there :wink:

[kimona]

Yeah, keep your cool, gently throw her out if you haven't already, maintain your self-respect, permit yourself a bit of time to shed a few tears, don't feel sorry for yourself, reflect on your experience, learn, and move on with dignity and confidence. Others will find your demeanor admirable and you will attract someone new. Good luck.

[Blenjar]

i updated the first post...

-- Blen

[blueskana]

Lame dude. I wouldn't worry about the douche-bag guy... how do you think thier relationship will end: a cheater is a cheater. She'll bail on him and he'll be crying in his beer. Or he'll toss her aside and she'll be all banged up... either way, they'll get thiers.:evil:
Now you can buy stuff for your car. That's money well spent: you take care of it, it takes care of you. Perfect!:wink:

[eTiMaGo]

Man sorry to hear that, I hate how women can so easily lead men on... Who said they were the weaker sex? It's :bs:

But I agree with the other guys and gals, keep your cool, no good's coming out of any confrontation. In fact, it sounds like they are trying to get you into a fight so they can probably sue you later or something. Ignore them from now on, and they'll find another target, as selfish as it sounds, it's the best way. But try and get a night vision security camera aimed on your car at night just in case :wink:

[sherryberry]

they're gonna f*** your yaris up?? I think this is a matter that you need to take to the police if it gets that serious. Sometimes, people are full of crap though. They'll say one thing and nothing happens. Tell her to go live w/ her new bf. They deserve each other. Watch, he'll get her knocked up and leave her. Like blueskana says... they'll get theirs.

[Blenjar]

th for the answers....i dunno if i can afford a camera to watch my car but i can hope they wont try n pull that up.

-- Blen

[Blenjar]

Im also not sure if i want to tell my parent about this, I'll just say she moved to Mass or something. I dont want to hear a lecture from my parents about this, i cant imagine how disturbing it might be to hear it from them =(

-- Blen

[alhope34]

Give her surprise buttsecks.



That sounds like something only a /b/tard would say...for teh lulz!

[sherryberry]

Im also not sure if i want to tell my parent about this, I'll just say she moved to Mass or something. I dont want to hear a lecture from my parents about this, i cant imagine how disturbing it might be to hear it from them =(

-- Blen

Blen, I know exactly how you feel. My dad hates all guys I date and when my incident happened, I totally did not want to hear a "i told you so" from my dad. This is why I keep my relationship stuff private from my parents. But you gotta remember.. they'll find out sooner or later. Maybe you can just say it didn't work out instead of telling them exactly what happened.

[RogueYaris]

Suggestion 1: Drop all communications with them i.e. no myspace, no emails, no phone calls. Don't try to get anything back from her. Think of it as a military style separation.

Suggestion 2: Set up a webcam or something that you can use to record your car when you're not around. That'll give some legal evidence in case something does happen to your car.

Suggestion 3: Don't go kicking anyone's ass. The drama and the bullshit is just not worth it.

[ben dover]

man that suks, i hope your feeling better? btw do you have a picture of the hole
how did this to you??? that way we know how to avoid. and keep your head up bro.

[CF-Shane]

Clean break for the win! I once left a PS2 and gtaIII / GT3 at an ex's place when she became my ex. It was worth it.

[Blenjar]

man that suks, i hope your feeling better? btw do you have a picture of the hole
how did this to you??? that way we know how to avoid. and keep your head up bro.

wait what do you mean the hole? a bit lost..just woke up

-- Blen

[ECHOKnight2000]

Ummm, Choke a bitch? Anyone?:laugh::laugh::laugh:

Sorry to hear about this. That sucks especially if you guys been going out for awhile. Yeah like others said leave it a long. Don't put salt on the wound, as tempting as it is.

[Meteorite Man]

wait what do you mean the hole? a bit lost..just woke up

-- Blen

Either he meant "hoe" or he is using the word "hole" to define her as a "total" lady part.

Move along. If you yourself have "NEVER EVER" cheated on anyone, and can honestly say that whether with this one or any other....I'd say move along. If you have been on the "cheating side of town" yourself, you have nothing to talk about.

He said, she said stuff makes for a terrible life. Just think of yourself sitting up at night peeping out through the curtains to watch your ride... Pretty pathetic.

Tossing punches just gets your ass tossed in jail. Even worse is if you get your ass kicked. Now your lady is gone, maybe a few teeth and your pride. Makes for even a darker day. You don't need a country song written about you!

Leave the spy stuff to the national agencies and move along. You landed this one, you'll get another. Just take more time to feel the next one out (no pun intended).

Buying stuff, trinkets and maybe an ocassional teddy bear is your desperation kicking thinking if I do this, she has to be faithful and good to me. Doesn't work.

Cheer up my friend. Don't get involved right away. Go tap a few pieces of strange ( this is where Sherry changes her mind about me) get it all out of your system. Dude, your a pretty young guy, no need to look long term so early in life.

[Blenjar]

Either he meant "hoe" or he is using the word "hole" to define her as a "total" lady part.

Move along. If you yourself have "NEVER EVER" cheated on anyone, and can honestly say that whether with this one or any other....I'd say move along. If you have been on the "cheating side of town" yourself, you have nothing to talk about.

He said, she said stuff makes for a terrible life. Just think of yourself sitting up at night peeping out through the curtains to watch your ride... Pretty pathetic.

Tossing punches just gets your ass tossed in jail. Even worse is if you get your ass kicked. Now your lady is gone, maybe a few teeth and your pride. Makes for even a darker day. You don't need a country song written about you!

Leave the spy stuff to the national agencies and move along. You landed this one, you'll get another. Just take more time to feel the next one out (no pun intended).

Buying stuff, trinkets and maybe an ocassional teddy bear is your desperation kicking thinking if I do this, she has to be faithful and good to me. Doesn't work.

Cheer up my friend. Don't get involved right away. Go tap a few pieces of strange ( this is where Sherry changes her mind about me) get it all out of your system. Dude, your a pretty young guy, no need to look long term so early in life.

haha ur rite...yea...i do peep out to check my ride whenever im home just not night time since im sleeping lol.
like that other guy said. i said i want a clean seperation. told it to her bf n her on our last chat. yesterday...anyway im clearning up my mind by watching sum anime im tryin to catch up wit..
i wont spend a dime on a gurl until we go out or if i ask her out.
n no i never cheated on past gf...if dissin an ex for halo 2 is cheating lol haha, but yea..tho 1 of my x tho i was cheating on her mmhmm, i didnt tho lol

-- Blen

[Irishlass]

I'm sorry you're going through this, get her stuff out of your space and maybe get a new rug or picture or something different. Visual change helps. For your parents, just tell them what you want them to know now and you can tell them more down the road if you want. It's hard when they like the partner, you know that she cheated on them too. Don't get nasty with her or the guy, it will cause more regrets and alot of wasted effort, not to mention possible assualt charges. Just move on and be kind to yourself and be a bit selfish for awhile. Be glad you found out now and not after you were married.

[Blenjar]

Yea I totally agree.

thx every1 i love u all in a nonhomosexual way hehehe lol =P

-- Blen

[sherryberry]

err well the nonhomosexual way wouldn't apply w/ me, right? ha . .since yeah.. ok

and chuck, I haven't changed my mind about you. Everyone has the right to experience being young and single once in a while.. as long as you don't have someone thinking that you two are going to be together forever :smile:

[SailDesign]

Im also not sure if i want to tell my parent about this, I'll just say she moved to Mass or something. I dont want to hear a lecture from my parents about this, i cant imagine how disturbing it might be to hear it from them =(

-- Blen

Blen, as a parent (4 kids, all growed up'n'all) and having a parent myself, I know both sides of where you're at. Bottom line is that if they KNOW what's happened, they can help you if anything goes down with the car ("Yes, your honor, they DID threaten to damage his car"), and let's be honest, hey, this won't be the first lecture, and won't be the last either. You've been through it before and can do it again LOL :wink:
Hang in there, Blen - as Sherry says, it will pass.

[ChinoCharles]

What do you do? Easy. Go slut it up. Get laid. Take pictures. Leave them under her door. If she has a sister, even better.

[Yaris Revenge]

Ha, dude, at least she didn't cheat on you with a relative. Been there, done that.... now THAT'S a mess to deal with.

IMHO, the best thing you could have done would be to blow them both off nice and cool. Tell the chick she's obviously not worth a shit, and you've got better way to spend your time and money. Nothing aggravates a chick like being ignored.

Can't blame the guy. I daresay 2/3 of guys would take the same opportunity if it presented itself (I wouldn't personally, but I can't imagine any of my friends turning it down). The girl is the one who betrayed your trust, therefore she should bear the full blame.
As for the threats against your car or whatever, has anyone mentioned a police report? Just to have an official record? Dunno how that stuff works, just takin' a stab at it.

~YR

[YarisTom73]

Suggestion 1: Drop all communications with them i.e. no myspace, no emails, no phone calls. Don't try to get anything back from her. Think of it as a military style separation.

Suggestion 2: Set up a webcam or something that you can use to record your car when you're not around. That'll give some legal evidence in case something does happen to your car.

Suggestion 3: Don't go kicking anyone's ass. The drama and the bullshit is just not worth it.
+1 EXACTLY

[death is my gift]

Maybe you can get a better caliber of girl if you learned how to type properly. Just saying.

In all seriousness, I've been cheated on. It really blows. But shit happens. It's up to us to pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off and keep on livin'. L-I-V-I-N

Also, the jokes about abuse towards women. We love that. Keep'em coming guys.

[punch]

-- Blen

Edit: she did cheat on her *real*bf while she was hanging out with me n my best friend n his best friend. we went camping, she got drunk n taken advantage of. i tried spelling it out to that fukin douchebag but she denies it hahaha wat a cunt

-- Blen


Blen i had sympathy for you until your last edit!!!

so blen your a fucking asshole yourself, getting girls drunk and "taken advantage of", what a moron, thats called rape!

[sherryberry]

Blen i had sympathy for you until your last edit!!!

so blen your a fucking asshole yourself, getting girls drunk and "taken advantage of", what a moron, thats called rape!

yeah uhh that's not cheating.. that's rape.

[death is my gift]

*sits back and watches*

[kurokoma-kun]

*sits back and watches*

<o><o>watching you watching them<o><o>

[brickhardmeat]

I haven't even read this thread but I say MAKE her love you, if that doesn't work KILL her.

[brickhardmeat]

ABBA fan?

knowing me, knowing you

[Blenjar]

Lol i didnt rape her...
i was sleeping while it happened..it woke me up n i stopped them.

lol doofus

-- Blen

[Blenjar]

Sorry about the mis-understanding. *edit

-- Blen

[Black Yaris]

well here is my thoughts
http://www.toledotuners.com/phpBB3/images/smilies/suicide-santa.gifhttp://www.toledotuners.com/phpBB3/images/smilies/wtfenglish.gifhttp://www.toledotuners.com/phpBB3/images/smilies/69.gifhttp://www.toledotuners.com/phpBB3/images/smilies/greenchainsaw.gifhttp://www.toledotuners.com/phpBB3/images/smilies/bitchfight.gifhttp://www.toledotuners.com/phpBB3/images/smilies/cockblockedsad.gifhttp://www.toledotuners.com/phpBB3/images/smilies/hide.gif
Yeah..... that seems to sum up this thread

[sherryberry]

so many smileys and commotions going on at the same time.... whoaaaaaaaaaaaaa

[joe keeney]

Hunt her down and kill it.

[punch]

Lol i didnt rape her...
i was sleeping while it happened..it woke me up n i stopped them.

lol doofus

-- Blen

you have issues, so lets see your friends rape your girl, and there still your friends???

BUT your girl denies she got raped by your freinds, which means she was willing, yet you continue to date her???

I apoligize for calling you an asshole, from your post it sure sounded like you were the bad guy.

[slothman86]

Well, looks like the overall tone is to play it straight and smart. Just move on and go driving...nothing better.

[Blenjar]

haha hey im feelin better anyway...
lets just say she got treated like shit from her parents n show she does it without realizing shes doing the samething her parents r doing which i was tryin to help n prevent.

anyway we can close this topic. I moved on lol

-- Blen

[sherryberry]

"lets just say she got treated like shit from her parents n show she does it without realizing shes doing the samething her parents r doing which i was tryin to help n prevent."

HUH?!

[death is my gift]

"lets just say she got treated like shit from her parents n show she does it without realizing shes doing the samething her parents r doing which i was tryin to help n prevent."

HUH?!

Precisely.

[Blenjar]

lol nm, close topic!!!

-- Blen

[sdmf]

shit happens...

but, kick that boy ass hard. Make the girl cry and regret. Give her surprise buttsecks. Sorry if its R rated.

hey you said "buttsecks" are you on 9thgen?

[punch]

and your over her in less then a week?? thats real love right there...

[brickhardmeat]

blenjab are you special ed or is it just that your foreign?

[sherryberry]

ya i have exes who are still not over me.

[Yaris Revenge]

haha hey im feelin better anyway...

anyway we can close this topic. I moved on lol

-- Blen

Sheesh, why is everyone being so hard on Bleny? What, he can't feel better after a few days? Must he be doomed to roam the world dwelling on this for a year, or 5, before he's eligible for recovery? He didn't say he was over her, simply that he was feeling better and moving on. Big difference.

You'd prefer him to keep hanging on, or what? If it's over, it's over. No point in wasting time.

I also don't remember him claiming she was his one true love.

~YR

[death is my gift]

ya i have exes who are still not over me.

This is the part where all of the guys say,

"Aw but Sherry, of course they are not over you. You are so beautiful. How can anyone ever be over YOU??

[kurokoma-kun]

This is the part where all of the guys say,

"Aw but Sherry, of course they are not over you. You are so beautiful. How can anyone ever be over YOU??

She does not say WHY they have not recovered :wink: *cough* lorena bobbit *cough*

[YarisTom73]

This is the part where all of the guys say,

"Aw but Sherry, of course they are not over you. You are so beautiful. How can anyone ever be over YOU??


The guys, and perhaps some of the girls too :laugh:

[ChinoCharles]

blenjab are you special ed or is it just that your foreign?

:bellyroll: He is foreign you dick. Funny post though.

[Blenjar]

I speak several foreign languages but also an american you dickwad :(

can you all get off my ballz, i mean i know they're juicy n stuff but no. stop it, thats nuff.

close topic doofus

-- Blen

[sherryberry]

This is the part where all of the guys say,

"Aw but Sherry, of course they are not over you. You are so beautiful. How can anyone ever be over YOU??

i'm sure not all guys would say that :wink:

even the one guy who dumped me tried to get me back a few times. but i've stopped talking to the exes or else they'll keep asking me back.. so i've done them a favor and if they're not over me by now... well that's not something i can fix.

one guy didn't have another gf for like over 3 years after our breakup in high school.. cuz he wasn't over me.. :frown:

[death is my gift]

The guys, and perhaps some of the girls too :laugh:

Not this girl.

[sherryberry]

ya i've never had girls like me ha at least not in that way.