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33OH · 05-19-2009, 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by SIPNGAS

I didn't want to but I am so hating my soon-to-be ex right now. He's poised to take EVERYTHING that *I've* worked so hard for. And when I say everything, I mean the entire house full of furniture. He was living at home with Mom and Dad when we got married...moved in with nothing but his computer and a dresser and now he wants the entire living room, the bedroom, and the kitchen set and MY computer. He's not working and wants ME to pay ALL his bills and looks as though he's going to get his way. I am SO FED UP I am just ready to hand it all over and be done. I am seriously at the end of my rope and can't take much more.

Sorry, didn't mean to vent but nobody here wants to listen. You guys can choose to read or not. I'm usually pretty good at holding myself together but I can't do this.

Sorry to hear it Lisa.

hatchbackkid82 · 05-19-2009, 01:24 PM

Oh no you are so wrong

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Originally Posted by KCALB SIRAY

"Eat the cake, Anna Mae!"

mrbond · 05-19-2009, 01:25 PM

Lisa, if I may: he is an ass and he obviously doesn't deserve what he wants from you. The old saying goes, if you want something bad enough, you'll get it. So keep fighting to keep what *you've* earned. Good luck :)

JBougie · 05-19-2009, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by SIPNGAS

I didn't want to but I am so hating my soon-to-be ex right now. He's poised to take EVERYTHING that *I've* worked so hard for. And when I say everything, I mean the entire house full of furniture. He was living at home with Mom and Dad when we got married...moved in with nothing but his computer and a dresser and now he wants the entire living room, the bedroom, and the kitchen set and MY computer. He's not working and wants ME to pay ALL his bills and looks as though he's going to get his way. I am SO FED UP I am just ready to hand it all over and be done. I am seriously at the end of my rope and can't take much more.

Sorry, didn't mean to vent but nobody here wants to listen. You guys can choose to read or not. I'm usually pretty good at holding myself together but I can't do this.

That is such BS. That's horrible, they should have it a set rule when it comes to divorce - "You leave with what you came with, and anything YOU bought while you were together" so that deadbeat spouses can't take 1/2 of stuff (or all of..) they didn't work for in the first damn place.

I'm sorry you're going through that :( That is really, really lame. I hope you come out on top in that situation!

SIPNGAS · 05-19-2009, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by JBougie

That is such BS. That's horrible, they should have it a set rule when it comes to divorce - "You leave with what you came with, and anything YOU bought while you were together" so that deadbeat spouses can't take 1/2 of stuff (or all of..) they didn't work for in the first damn place.

I'm sorry you're going through that :( That is really, really lame. I hope you come out on top in that situation!

I don't think I will and I'm so tired of fighting. I had everything when he moved in...some things we upgraded but I offered to pay half (even though even most of the new things I purchased anyway).

he just wants it all and at this point, i can't stomach trying to fight.

KCALB SIRAY · 05-19-2009, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by JBougie

That is such BS. That's horrible, they should have it a set rule when it comes to divorce - "You leave with what you came with, and anything YOU bought while you were together" so that deadbeat spouses can't take 1/2 of stuff (or all of..) they didn't work for in the first damn place.

I'm sorry you're going through that :( That is really, really lame. I hope you come out on top in that situation!

That's the law in Virginia. Anything had prior to being married does not fator in the dissolution of a marriage and cannot be added to the pot

33OH · 05-19-2009, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by KCALB SIRAY

That's the law in Virginia. Anything had prior to being married does not fator in the dissolution of a marriage and cannot be added to the pot

Same in Ohio.

KCALB SIRAY · 05-19-2009, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by SIPNGAS

I don't think I will and I'm so tired of fighting. I had everything when he moved in...some things we upgraded but I offered to pay half (even though even most of the new things I purchased anyway).

he just wants it all and at this point, i can't stomach trying to fight.

Hold your ground!!

JBougie · 05-19-2009, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by KCALB SIRAY

That's the law in Virginia. Anything had prior to being married does not fator in the dissolution of a marriage and cannot be added to the pot

That's cool! That's how it always should be, I hate people who feel they are entitled to things just because their significant other worked their ass off to get it. It makes me sick.

SIPNGAS, you can always set up a mock break in and make everything "disappear" LOL

just kidding :)

hatchbackkid82 · 05-19-2009, 02:01 PM

Wow what a stand up guy

I hope everything works out for you. You said it everything you worked for. I see it like this; if you came in with nothing you leave with nothing. He doesn't deserve anything from you. He is just being a parasite and feeding off of you, what a lowlife

. Sorry to hear you're going through all that, fight for it, it's all yours. Hopefully he walks away with nothing. Keep your head up

Quote:

Originally Posted by SIPNGAS

I didn't want to but I am so hating my soon-to-be ex right now. He's poised to take EVERYTHING that *I've* worked so hard for. And when I say everything, I mean the entire house full of furniture. He was living at home with Mom and Dad when we got married...moved in with nothing but his computer and a dresser and now he wants the entire living room, the bedroom, and the kitchen set and MY computer. He's not working and wants ME to pay ALL his bills and looks as though he's going to get his way. I am SO FED UP I am just ready to hand it all over and be done. I am seriously at the end of my rope and can't take much more.

Sorry, didn't mean to vent but nobody here wants to listen. You guys can choose to read or not. I'm usually pretty good at holding myself together but I can't do this.

hatchbackkid82 · 05-19-2009, 02:03 PM

Of course me and mike can drive up to the cheese state and take care of this clown

Nothing a good old fashion beat down can't fix

detroiter · 05-19-2009, 02:05 PM

I have a math test in a few hours that's open book but it's a pain in the ass to know which formula to use for what problems. So even though it's open book, it's barely any help. I only care so much because it's the single class I'm taking so I can get my teaching associates, already applied for graduation and would be bummed if couldn't graduate yet because of the bullshit math class. Einstein's mc-square can kiss my ass!

SIPNGAS · 05-19-2009, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by hatchbackkid82

Of course me and mike can drive up to the cheese state and take care of this clown

Nothing a good old fashion beat down can't fix

LOL

Aww..thanks for making me feel a little bit better. I guess it's why I've been quiet the last couple of days. He's usually quiet for a while and then goes on these tangents and gets all of his friends involved. It's really, really draining.

33OH · 05-19-2009, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by SIPNGAS

LOL

Aww..thanks for making me feel a little bit better. I guess it's why I've been quiet the last couple of days. He's usually quiet for a while and then goes on these tangents and gets all of his friends involved. It's really, really draining.

Just think of when it's all done and over with. Don't give up, he's not even worth getting upset over.

hatchbackkid82 · 05-19-2009, 02:18 PM

Honestly though, fight. I know it may be exhausting but they are your things. If it were me, it would bug me to know that someone else is enjoying the things i worked so hard for. Fight!!!!!! You can do It

eTiMaGo · 05-19-2009, 02:19 PM

Lisa, there's not much I can do or say to help, but know that my thoughts are with you, and here's a big virtual HUG to keep you strong

hatchbackkid82 · 05-19-2009, 02:21 PM

I'm surprised no one has said it already, but this guy is a real piece of shit

. What a poor excuse of man

.

hatchbackkid82 · 05-19-2009, 02:22 PM

Did you feel his hug?

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Originally Posted by eTiMaGo

Lisa, there's not much I can do or say to help, but know that my thoughts are with you, and here's a big virtual HUG to keep you strong

05-19-2009, 01:25 PM	#237
mrbond View User's Garage Drives: 2008 meteorite hatchback Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Illinois Posts: 960	Lisa, if I may: he is an ass and he obviously doesn't deserve what he wants from you. The old saying goes, if you want something bad enough, you'll get it. So keep fighting to keep what you've earned. Good luck :) __________________ - HOOOEY! That's one tahny little cawr! What the heck kinda toy is that? - A Toyota Yaris - A whut Yaris?

05-19-2009, 02:19 PM	#250
eTiMaGo vroom vroom View User's Garage Drives: lil red 5-door Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Bangkok, Thailand Posts: 7,744	Lisa, there's not much I can do or say to help, but know that my thoughts are with you, and here's a big virtual HUG to keep you strong __________________ The price of freedom of religion, or of speech, or of the press, is that we must put up with a good deal of rubbish. - Robert Jackson Bye bye 1NZ...

05-19-2009, 02:21 PM	#251
hatchbackkid82 Drives: . Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: . Posts: 1,828	I'm surprised no one has said it already, but this guy is a real piece of shit. What a poor excuse of man.

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05-19-2009, 02:03 PM	#245
hatchbackkid82 Drives: . Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: . Posts: 1,828	Of course me and mike can drive up to the cheese state and take care of this clown Nothing a good old fashion beat down can't fix

05-19-2009, 02:05 PM	#246
detroiter Drives: 2008 Polar White LB Auto Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Metro Detroit Posts: 1,238	I have a math test in a few hours that's open book but it's a pain in the ass to know which formula to use for what problems. So even though it's open book, it's barely any help. I only care so much because it's the single class I'm taking so I can get my teaching associates, already applied for graduation and would be bummed if couldn't graduate yet because of the bullshit math class. Einstein's mc-square can kiss my ass!