i was cheated on for 2 month,wat to do? - Toyota Yaris Forums

Blenjar · 09-08-2007, 01:05 AM

yes it was a girl...bitch cheated on me for 8 weeks n literally lived in my house for 6 weeks...gosh all the money is all gone.i could had gotten a bodykit n second set of 17s with that, i even brought her back gift from my vacation in northern Africa.

sooo any ideas? i really want to punch her in the face so bad, n her real bf. kick his fukin ass.

grrrrrrr ='(

-- Blen

Edit: well the news is: i really flipped out when i found out more shit about this, i deleted her myspace n now her n her bf treatening to fuk my shit up (my yaris i assume)
wat do i do now? god damn i get fuked n now they wanna fuk my car up...damn italians!
this is getting serious....wat do i dooo

-- Blen

Edit: she did cheat on her *real*bf while she was hanging out with me n my best friend n his best friend. we went camping, she got drunk n taken advantage of. i tried spelling it out to that fukin douchebag but she denies it hahaha wat a cunt (i wasn't part of the rape, i was sleeping while it happen, i stopped it tho)

-- Blen

Kaotic Lazagna · 09-08-2007, 01:09 AM

dude, that sucks ass, man. i would break it off with her, take back everything you bought her and sell it off to try to make some money back. as for the bf, i kick his ass if he started going out with her after i did.

cdmyaris · 09-08-2007, 01:17 AM

shit happens...

but, kick that boy ass hard. Make the girl cry and regret. Give her surprise buttsecks. Sorry if its R rated.

alhope34 · 09-08-2007, 02:34 AM

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Originally Posted by cdmyaris

Give her surprise buttsecks.

That sounds like something only a /b/tard would say...for teh lulz!

sdmf · 09-13-2007, 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by cdmyaris

shit happens...

but, kick that boy ass hard. Make the girl cry and regret. Give her surprise buttsecks. Sorry if its R rated.

hey you said "buttsecks" are you on 9thgen?

sherryberry · 09-08-2007, 01:43 AM

maybe it's just me but I don't believe that once you've given a gift that it should be taken back. You gave the gift without wanting somethin in return.. unless you were but that's another story.

Anyway, I have been cheated on and let me tell you it hurts like hell for like a bit but eventually, it somewhat gets better. the pain will never fully go away like that bs phrase but it does get better.

And kicking someone's ass never solves anything. You're better than them. Just move no and you will find a girl who respects you and loves you for you. And is also faithful.

black2yaris · 09-08-2007, 01:47 AM

Come on you knew she was that way ! & you thought she fall for you with all that bling ? .. You got used , you knew deep down she was like that ,that caused you to throw more bling her way.. Get over & move on.. Just don't fall for the next gold digger .

sherryberry · 09-08-2007, 01:48 AM

oh ya if you kick his ass.. dont' forget you could get thrown in jail or somethin bad could come out of that so I highly suggest not kicking any ass. I've gotten to where I am today without having had to kick any ass, despite the crap I've been handed. And btw, there are nice girls out there

blueskana · 09-08-2007, 02:20 AM

Lame dude. I wouldn't worry about the douche-bag guy... how do you think thier relationship will end: a cheater is a cheater. She'll bail on him and he'll be crying in his beer. Or he'll toss her aside and she'll be all banged up... either way, they'll get thiers.

Now you can buy stuff for your car. That's money well spent: you take care of it, it takes care of you. Perfect!

*kimona* · 09-08-2007, 02:11 AM

Yeah, keep your cool, gently throw her out if you haven't already, maintain your self-respect, permit yourself a bit of time to shed a few tears, don't feel sorry for yourself, reflect on your experience, learn, and move on with dignity and confidence. Others will find your demeanor admirable and you will attract someone new. Good luck.

Blenjar · 09-08-2007, 02:16 AM

i updated the first post...

-- Blen

eTiMaGo · 09-08-2007, 02:22 AM

Man sorry to hear that, I hate how women can so easily lead men on... Who said they were the weaker sex? It's

But I agree with the other guys and gals, keep your cool, no good's coming out of any confrontation. In fact, it sounds like they are trying to get you into a fight so they can probably sue you later or something. Ignore them from now on, and they'll find another target, as selfish as it sounds, it's the best way. But try and get a night vision security camera aimed on your car at night just in case

sherryberry · 09-08-2007, 02:24 AM

they're gonna f*** your yaris up?? I think this is a matter that you need to take to the police if it gets that serious. Sometimes, people are full of crap though. They'll say one thing and nothing happens. Tell her to go live w/ her new bf. They deserve each other. Watch, he'll get her knocked up and leave her. Like blueskana says... they'll get theirs.

Blenjar · 09-08-2007, 02:31 AM

th for the answers....i dunno if i can afford a camera to watch my car but i can hope they wont try n pull that up.

-- Blen

Blenjar · 09-08-2007, 02:32 AM

Im also not sure if i want to tell my parent about this, I'll just say she moved to Mass or something. I dont want to hear a lecture from my parents about this, i cant imagine how disturbing it might be to hear it from them =(

-- Blen

sherryberry · 09-08-2007, 02:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Blenjar

Im also not sure if i want to tell my parent about this, I'll just say she moved to Mass or something. I dont want to hear a lecture from my parents about this, i cant imagine how disturbing it might be to hear it from them =(

-- Blen

Blen, I know exactly how you feel. My dad hates all guys I date and when my incident happened, I totally did not want to hear a "i told you so" from my dad. This is why I keep my relationship stuff private from my parents. But you gotta remember.. they'll find out sooner or later. Maybe you can just say it didn't work out instead of telling them exactly what happened.

SailDesign · 09-08-2007, 06:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Blenjar

Im also not sure if i want to tell my parent about this, I'll just say she moved to Mass or something. I dont want to hear a lecture from my parents about this, i cant imagine how disturbing it might be to hear it from them =(

-- Blen

Blen, as a parent (4 kids, all growed up'n'all) and having a parent myself, I know both sides of where you're at. Bottom line is that if they KNOW what's happened, they can help you if anything goes down with the car ("Yes, your honor, they DID threaten to damage his car"), and let's be honest, hey, this won't be the first lecture, and won't be the last either. You've been through it before and can do it again LOL

Hang in there, Blen - as Sherry says, it will pass.

RogueYaris · 09-08-2007, 04:14 AM

Suggestion 1: Drop all communications with them i.e. no myspace, no emails, no phone calls. Don't try to get anything back from her. Think of it as a military style separation.

Suggestion 2: Set up a webcam or something that you can use to record your car when you're not around. That'll give some legal evidence in case something does happen to your car.

Suggestion 3: Don't go kicking anyone's ass. The drama and the bullshit is just not worth it.

09-08-2007, 01:05 AM	#1
Blenjar View User's Garage Drives: Black Yaris 07 HB Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: CT Posts: 1,548	i was cheated on for 2 month,wat to do? yes it was a girl...bitch cheated on me for 8 weeks n literally lived in my house for 6 weeks...gosh all the money is all gone.i could had gotten a bodykit n second set of 17s with that, i even brought her back gift from my vacation in northern Africa. sooo any ideas? i really want to punch her in the face so bad, n her real bf. kick his fukin ass. grrrrrrr ='( -- Blen Edit: well the news is: i really flipped out when i found out more shit about this, i deleted her myspace n now her n her bf treatening to fuk my shit up (my yaris i assume) wat do i do now? god damn i get fuked n now they wanna fuk my car up...damn italians! this is getting serious....wat do i dooo -- Blen Edit: she did cheat on her realbf while she was hanging out with me n my best friend n his best friend. we went camping, she got drunk n taken advantage of. i tried spelling it out to that fukin douchebag but she denies it hahaha wat a cunt (i wasn't part of the rape, i was sleeping while it happen, i stopped it tho) -- Blen __________________ http://www.360voice.com/tag/noobblenjar My Car http://www.yarisworld.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4245 My DJ www.PainlessWolf.com Last edited by Blenjar; 09-12-2007 at 12:08 AM.

09-08-2007, 01:17 AM	#3
cdmyaris Drives: 07 Yaris Liftback Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: California, SoCal Posts: 161	shit happens... but, kick that boy ass hard. Make the girl cry and regret. Give her surprise buttsecks. Sorry if its R rated. __________________ Toyota Yaris FTFW!!

09-08-2007, 01:43 AM	#6
sherryberry Drives: 07 Blazing Blue Yaris Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Illinois Posts: 1,305	maybe it's just me but I don't believe that once you've given a gift that it should be taken back. You gave the gift without wanting somethin in return.. unless you were but that's another story. Anyway, I have been cheated on and let me tell you it hurts like hell for like a bit but eventually, it somewhat gets better. the pain will never fully go away like that bs phrase but it does get better. And kicking someone's ass never solves anything. You're better than them. Just move no and you will find a girl who respects you and loves you for you. And is also faithful. __________________ Don't Milk the Cat! -Said by me during a game of Cranium.

09-08-2007, 01:47 AM	#7
black2yaris The Man In Black Lives View User's Garage Drives: Black Sand Pearl L/B 'o7 Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: SF Bay Area Posts: 477	Come on you knew she was that way ! & you thought she fall for you with all that bling ? .. You got used , you knew deep down she was like that ,that caused you to throw more bling her way.. Get over & move on.. Just don't fall for the next gold digger . __________________ black2yaris The Man In Black Lives! 2007 2 door hatchback in Black Sand Pearl, A/T,rear spoiler,front & rear JDM badges,TRD CAI,TRD rear sway bar,exhaust tip,sill protectors,heximats,under dash blue LED's,short rubber ant,rear bumper protector,Toyota thin 7 spoke alloy wheels,pwr pkg,ABS,side curtain airbags,rear defogger,fog lights,mud guards,TYC tail lights,shift knob,tint all windows,security sys,keyless entry,clear paint protection all exposed front surfaces,TRD fuel cap,rubber dash & g/b mats

09-08-2007, 01:48 AM	#8
sherryberry Drives: 07 Blazing Blue Yaris Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Illinois Posts: 1,305	oh ya if you kick his ass.. dont' forget you could get thrown in jail or somethin bad could come out of that so I highly suggest not kicking any ass. I've gotten to where I am today without having had to kick any ass, despite the crap I've been handed. And btw, there are nice girls out there __________________ Don't Milk the Cat! -Said by me during a game of Cranium.

09-08-2007, 01:09 AM	#2
Kaotic Lazagna View User's Garage Drives: '14 GT86, '08 Vitz Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Central Valley, CA Posts: 9,873	dude, that sucks ass, man. i would break it off with her, take back everything you bought her and sell it off to try to make some money back. as for the bf, i kick his ass if he started going out with her after i did.

09-08-2007, 02:20 AM	#9
blueskana View User's Garage Drives: 2007 Yaris LB Join Date: May 2007 Location: San Antonio, TX Posts: 206	Lame dude. I wouldn't worry about the douche-bag guy... how do you think thier relationship will end: a cheater is a cheater. She'll bail on him and he'll be crying in his beer. Or he'll toss her aside and she'll be all banged up... either way, they'll get thiers. Now you can buy stuff for your car. That's money well spent: you take care of it, it takes care of you. Perfect!

09-08-2007, 02:11 AM	#10
kimona Super Moderator Drives: 2014 White VITZ Join Date: May 2007 Location: Huntington Bch, CA Posts: 4,938	Yeah, keep your cool, gently throw her out if you haven't already, maintain your self-respect, permit yourself a bit of time to shed a few tears, don't feel sorry for yourself, reflect on your experience, learn, and move on with dignity and confidence. Others will find your demeanor admirable and you will attract someone new. Good luck.

09-08-2007, 02:16 AM	#11
Blenjar View User's Garage Drives: Black Yaris 07 HB Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: CT Posts: 1,548	i updated the first post... -- Blen __________________ http://www.360voice.com/tag/noobblenjar My Car http://www.yarisworld.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4245 My DJ www.PainlessWolf.com

09-08-2007, 02:22 AM	#12
eTiMaGo vroom vroom View User's Garage Drives: lil red 5-door Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Bangkok, Thailand Posts: 7,744	Man sorry to hear that, I hate how women can so easily lead men on... Who said they were the weaker sex? It's But I agree with the other guys and gals, keep your cool, no good's coming out of any confrontation. In fact, it sounds like they are trying to get you into a fight so they can probably sue you later or something. Ignore them from now on, and they'll find another target, as selfish as it sounds, it's the best way. But try and get a night vision security camera aimed on your car at night just in case __________________ The price of freedom of religion, or of speech, or of the press, is that we must put up with a good deal of rubbish. - Robert Jackson Bye bye 1NZ...

09-08-2007, 02:24 AM	#13
sherryberry Drives: 07 Blazing Blue Yaris Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Illinois Posts: 1,305	they're gonna f* your yaris up?? I think this is a matter that you need to take to the police if it gets that serious. Sometimes, people are full of crap though. They'll say one thing and nothing happens. Tell her to go live w/ her new bf. They deserve each other. Watch, he'll get her knocked up and leave her. Like blueskana says... they'll get theirs. __________________ Don't Milk the Cat!** -Said by me during a game of Cranium.

09-08-2007, 02:31 AM	#14
Blenjar View User's Garage Drives: Black Yaris 07 HB Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: CT Posts: 1,548	th for the answers....i dunno if i can afford a camera to watch my car but i can hope they wont try n pull that up. -- Blen __________________ http://www.360voice.com/tag/noobblenjar My Car http://www.yarisworld.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4245 My DJ www.PainlessWolf.com

09-08-2007, 02:32 AM	#15
Blenjar View User's Garage Drives: Black Yaris 07 HB Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: CT Posts: 1,548	Im also not sure if i want to tell my parent about this, I'll just say she moved to Mass or something. I dont want to hear a lecture from my parents about this, i cant imagine how disturbing it might be to hear it from them =( -- Blen __________________ http://www.360voice.com/tag/noobblenjar My Car http://www.yarisworld.com/forums/showthread.php?t=4245 My DJ www.PainlessWolf.com

09-08-2007, 04:14 AM	#18
RogueYaris View User's Garage Drives: 2015 Abs Red Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: JAX Posts: 374	Suggestion 1: Drop all communications with them i.e. no myspace, no emails, no phone calls. Don't try to get anything back from her. Think of it as a military style separation. Suggestion 2: Set up a webcam or something that you can use to record your car when you're not around. That'll give some legal evidence in case something does happen to your car. Suggestion 3: Don't go kicking anyone's ass. The drama and the bullshit is just not worth it.