just because you are a girl doesn't mean you can't do things. yes, a shop can install them for you. here is where I got mine.
http://shop.microimageonline.com/H-R...aris-29126.htm
here is the thread where I put mine on.
http://shop.microimageonline.com/H-R...aris-29126.htm
and also realize that my nice stiff suspension is not liked by most people that drive economy cars. yes it corners like nobody's business but you feel most (if not every) bump in the road.
there are cheaper alternatives to suspension. garm has a set of springs for $150 for a set. you don't technically need a sway bar. and if you do it yourself, you will only have the cost of parts in it. I have a PDF of the install. I got it from here somewhere but just saved it on my computer.