Infidelity

[nemelek]

18 years ago I was involved in what I thought was a very deep and mutual relationship. There were a few things didn't add up. She had a few emontional problems and I dismissed her behavior. What she said and what she did didn't match up. Every month or so she needed time to herself. Finally I stalked her. I know it was wrong, however I am glad I did because I found out the truth. She had an old boyfriend from another city visit her. It hurt my pride but it finally explained everything that didn't add up and I left her shortly thereafter.

I have been involved in 3 relationships afterwards and have never felt the need to not trust the person I was with. Although spying on another could be wrong, if you got that gut feeling and you are usually not the jealous type I would find a was to check her/him out. Use other friends and don't get caught if you are wrong. I always like that TV show Cheaters.

The truth sometimes hurts but the truth will also set you free.