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それを吸ってください
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who just garbbed my ass?
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05-19-2009, 03:24 PM
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05-19-2009, 03:27 PM
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それを吸ってください
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group hug for Lisa!!! =)
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05-19-2009, 03:28 PM
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Those chics have some killer thighs, butterface!!!!!!
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05-19-2009, 03:33 PM
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I LOVE my Yaris!
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Thanks guys..
I like the Craigslist idea..lol! I'm just tired and almost willing to do anything to just be done. Things can be replaced. Having him out of my life might be worth an empty house.
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05-19-2009, 11:39 PM
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Lawyer... $2,000.
Divorce... 50% of everything. Sharing kids and pets with husband... 50% 0f your heart. Used pistol at local gun store and box of ammo... $100. Some things money can't buy, but this isn't one of them. I only do the math, the choice is ultimately yours. |
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05-19-2009, 11:42 PM
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I LOVE my Yaris!
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05-20-2009, 01:05 AM
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Gee, Lisa, I feel your pain, as I have been there, a long time ago. I lost everything, and all it was eventually was the next beginning. As long as you have the girls and some hope, you will be fine. I have no idea how the Law works there, but I suggest countersuing, offer the lawyer 75% of what you get as contingency, and drive him out of the State. Best of luck...
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05-20-2009, 04:13 PM
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Got pulled over for doing 110 mph in a 55 mph zone... and the cop let me drive away without a ticket! I am WAY taking that as a sign to stop driving it daily. I have too many performance parts on it to want to go the speed limit, so I show it off a lot. I need to make it my "Weekend" car. Something I take to the track or show, and maybe to a drive in restaurant to show off, and that's it. I now have been pulled over 3 times in just over 3 months. I am deploying in the next 2 weeks (or so, seeing as it is taking FOREVER to get my paperwork straight) to Iraq for my 3rd time. Wish me luck, and I'll try to check in once in awhile!
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05-20-2009, 04:23 PM
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I LOVE my Yaris!
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All of you, really. Thank you SO much. I can't possibly let anyone know how much your compassion means to me. Anybody who says an online community isn't REAL just has no clue.
I know I'll be OK...maybe with a house absent of furniture and for a while and things at this moment just seem so hopeless...but if it's THINGS that will make him happy, he can have them. Life just isn't about THINGS.
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05-20-2009, 11:49 PM
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Things do matter. With things we can accomplish tasks and meet goals. I say let him have half of the things. If he's playing games because he wants half of the house make a counter offer - sure he can have half of the house - after you sell it. In this housing market lots of luck. I may sound "heartless" but my compassion is short for people who play dirty tricks on other folks. I have been an instrument of Karma, and I will be again. Gene |
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05-20-2009, 04:55 PM
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^ exactly. Material objects come and go. It's the pursuit of happiness and meaningful endeavors that make life as good as it is and can be :)
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05-20-2009, 11:12 PM
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Please don't spend much time with the hate thing, it only hurts you, and you don't need that now. Find nice people and hang with them.
When I found myself with nothing, I found that my real friends pitched in and helped where they could: furniture, linens, food, nights out, anything they could. The only way out of this will be with the help of your friends. Please count us among your friends, Lisa, we are here for you... |
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05-20-2009, 11:14 PM
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I LOVE my Yaris!
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Really and I don't know what to say but thank you...
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05-20-2009, 11:47 PM
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I really LOVE this car!!!
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Lisa, I walked away the first time. Left him the house and pretty much everything. I had a 5 year old and was 7 months pregnant. Could not have another child with that man. Would have been wrong for me and the girls. I have never regretted it, well except for not leaving sooner, but then I wouldn't have my youngest. I know the girls think I made the right decision as well. They turned out really well so I guess I did OK.
Keep your chin up, all we can do is the best we can do. Lean on your friends and family.
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05-21-2009, 12:14 AM
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What Gene said, particularly about selling the house; they can't force you to sell your own house, at least not up here. Also, it is YOUR happiness that matters here in Yaris Land!
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05-21-2009, 12:23 AM
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Lisa is holding the cards - she has a job, she has the kids (if she's got them), and she has a system which is engineered to beat "deadbeats". All she has to do is hammer the boy until he sees the light, takes his fair share minus lawyer fees and then takes a hike. Gene |
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05-21-2009, 12:30 AM
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Quick story....
I have a cousin, she's a couple of years younger than I. She had a "female" condition that demanded she have kids early because eventually she'd have to get a hysterectomy. Most of her life she'd fall in love with losers who would abuse her, but as she grew older she got more particular. Her biggest thing was being a Mom. Everything else came after that. After she got her BS in Nursing she married a Marine Aviator. Looked like Ollie North, polite, cordial. His old man was Career Marine and a standup guy. Figured that the kid would turn out the same way. They got married, bought a big assed house off base, had a little boy. A year later they had a little girl. While she was recovering from the damage of childbirth (she's only 4' 11") he pops off in his fighter plane to see his girlfriend. My cousin gets wind of it. Takes him out. She turned him in to his CO, who tossed him out of the Corps. He stalks her for a time, and tried to get support. Her lawyer smashed him like a roach in court and he vanished. I've heard that his kids don't know their biological father and could not care less to meet him. She then was stuck with a monthly Mortgage of $2,300 a month (back in the 1990s) and two toddlers. Tough times but she made it. She went through another loser before she found a standup guy. He adopted the two kids, they had another together. She's happy today. You gotta go for what you want in life and be patient. Gene |
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