i was cheated on for 2 month,wat to do?

[Blenjar]

Originally Posted by ben dover

man that suks, i hope your feeling better? btw do you have a picture of the hole
how did this to you??? that way we know how to avoid. and keep your head up bro.

wait what do you mean the hole? a bit lost..just woke up

-- Blen

[ECHOKnight2000]

Ummm, Choke a bitch? Anyone?

Sorry to hear about this. That sucks especially if you guys been going out for awhile. Yeah like others said leave it a long. Don't put salt on the wound, as tempting as it is.

[Meteorite Man]

Originally Posted by Blenjar

wait what do you mean the hole? a bit lost..just woke up

-- Blen

Either he meant "hoe" or he is using the word "hole" to define her as a "total" lady part.

Move along. If you yourself have "NEVER EVER" cheated on anyone, and can honestly say that whether with this one or any other....I'd say move along. If you have been on the "cheating side of town" yourself, you have nothing to talk about.

He said, she said stuff makes for a terrible life. Just think of yourself sitting up at night peeping out through the curtains to watch your ride... Pretty pathetic.

Tossing punches just gets your ass tossed in jail. Even worse is if you get your ass kicked. Now your lady is gone, maybe a few teeth and your pride. Makes for even a darker day. You don't need a country song written about you!

Leave the spy stuff to the national agencies and move along. You landed this one, you'll get another. Just take more time to feel the next one out (no pun intended).

Buying stuff, trinkets and maybe an ocassional teddy bear is your desperation kicking thinking if I do this, she has to be faithful and good to me. Doesn't work.

Cheer up my friend. Don't get involved right away. Go tap a few pieces of strange ( this is where Sherry changes her mind about me) get it all out of your system. Dude, your a pretty young guy, no need to look long term so early in life.

[Blenjar]

Originally Posted by Meteorite Man

Either he meant "hoe" or he is using the word "hole" to define her as a "total" lady part.

Move along. If you yourself have "NEVER EVER" cheated on anyone, and can honestly say that whether with this one or any other....I'd say move along. If you have been on the "cheating side of town" yourself, you have nothing to talk about.

He said, she said stuff makes for a terrible life. Just think of yourself sitting up at night peeping out through the curtains to watch your ride... Pretty pathetic.

Tossing punches just gets your ass tossed in jail. Even worse is if you get your ass kicked. Now your lady is gone, maybe a few teeth and your pride. Makes for even a darker day. You don't need a country song written about you!

Leave the spy stuff to the national agencies and move along. You landed this one, you'll get another. Just take more time to feel the next one out (no pun intended).

Buying stuff, trinkets and maybe an ocassional teddy bear is your desperation kicking thinking if I do this, she has to be faithful and good to me. Doesn't work.

Cheer up my friend. Don't get involved right away. Go tap a few pieces of strange ( this is where Sherry changes her mind about me) get it all out of your system. Dude, your a pretty young guy, no need to look long term so early in life.

haha ur rite...yea...i do peep out to check my ride whenever im home just not night time since im sleeping lol.
like that other guy said. i said i want a clean seperation. told it to her bf n her on our last chat. yesterday...anyway im clearning up my mind by watching sum anime im tryin to catch up wit..
i wont spend a dime on a gurl until we go out or if i ask her out.
n no i never cheated on past gf...if dissin an ex for halo 2 is cheating lol haha, but yea..tho 1 of my x tho i was cheating on her mmhmm, i didnt tho lol

-- Blen

[Irishlass]

I'm sorry you're going through this, get her stuff out of your space and maybe get a new rug or picture or something different. Visual change helps. For your parents, just tell them what you want them to know now and you can tell them more down the road if you want. It's hard when they like the partner, you know that she cheated on them too. Don't get nasty with her or the guy, it will cause more regrets and alot of wasted effort, not to mention possible assualt charges. Just move on and be kind to yourself and be a bit selfish for awhile. Be glad you found out now and not after you were married.

[Blenjar]

Yea I totally agree.

thx every1 i love u all in a nonhomosexual way hehehe lol =P

-- Blen

[sherryberry]

err well the nonhomosexual way wouldn't apply w/ me, right? ha . .since yeah.. ok

and chuck, I haven't changed my mind about you. Everyone has the right to experience being young and single once in a while.. as long as you don't have someone thinking that you two are going to be together forever

[SailDesign]

Originally Posted by Blenjar

Im also not sure if i want to tell my parent about this, I'll just say she moved to Mass or something. I dont want to hear a lecture from my parents about this, i cant imagine how disturbing it might be to hear it from them =(

-- Blen

Blen, as a parent (4 kids, all growed up'n'all) and having a parent myself, I know both sides of where you're at. Bottom line is that if they KNOW what's happened, they can help you if anything goes down with the car ("Yes, your honor, they DID threaten to damage his car"), and let's be honest, hey, this won't be the first lecture, and won't be the last either. You've been through it before and can do it again LOL
Hang in there, Blen - as Sherry says, it will pass.

[ChinoCharles]

What do you do? Easy. Go slut it up. Get laid. Take pictures. Leave them under her door. If she has a sister, even better.

[Yaris Revenge]

Ha, dude, at least she didn't cheat on you with a relative. Been there, done that.... now THAT'S a mess to deal with.

IMHO, the best thing you could have done would be to blow them both off nice and cool. Tell the chick she's obviously not worth a shit, and you've got better way to spend your time and money. Nothing aggravates a chick like being ignored.

Can't blame the guy. I daresay 2/3 of guys would take the same opportunity if it presented itself (I wouldn't personally, but I can't imagine any of my friends turning it down). The girl is the one who betrayed your trust, therefore she should bear the full blame.
As for the threats against your car or whatever, has anyone mentioned a police report? Just to have an official record? Dunno how that stuff works, just takin' a stab at it.

~YR

[YarisTom73]

Originally Posted by RogueYaris

Suggestion 1: Drop all communications with them i.e. no myspace, no emails, no phone calls. Don't try to get anything back from her. Think of it as a military style separation.

Suggestion 2: Set up a webcam or something that you can use to record your car when you're not around. That'll give some legal evidence in case something does happen to your car.

Suggestion 3: Don't go kicking anyone's ass. The drama and the bullshit is just not worth it.

+1 EXACTLY

[death is my gift]

Maybe you can get a better caliber of girl if you learned how to type properly. Just saying.

In all seriousness, I've been cheated on. It really blows. But shit happens. It's up to us to pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off and keep on livin'. L-I-V-I-N

Also, the jokes about abuse towards women. We love that. Keep'em coming guys.

[punch]

Originally Posted by Blenjar

-- Blen

Edit: she did cheat on her *real*bf while she was hanging out with me n my best friend n his best friend. we went camping, she got drunk n taken advantage of. i tried spelling it out to that fukin douchebag but she denies it hahaha wat a cunt

-- Blen

Blen i had sympathy for you until your last edit!!!

so blen your a fucking asshole yourself, getting girls drunk and "taken advantage of", what a moron, thats called rape!

[sherryberry]

Originally Posted by punch

Blen i had sympathy for you until your last edit!!!

so blen your a fucking asshole yourself, getting girls drunk and "taken advantage of", what a moron, thats called rape!

yeah uhh that's not cheating.. that's rape.

[death is my gift]

*sits back and watches*

[kurokoma-kun]

Originally Posted by death is my gift

*sits back and watches*

<o><o>watching you watching them<o><o>

[brickhardmeat]

I haven't even read this thread but I say MAKE her love you, if that doesn't work KILL her.

[brickhardmeat]

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