Bonfire meet, November...

[tomato]

Originally Posted by RemieGino14

Wait....sorry, I didn't get it?

- RemieGino14 -

Me neither.

[yaris-me]

Originally Posted by tomato

I agree!!! WTF is going on in here?!!
The answer you got was definitely not cool




Dude, you need to chill a little bit. You want to give him a straight answer (whether or not he'll be able to attend the meet without money)?

Appropriate answers would be

* yeah, sure, we'll squeeze you in, although if you can find $5.00 in your pockets before coming, it'd be much appreciated.

* No, sorry, we're just too broke, can't afford to put this event together without everybody chipping in

* Sorry, no can do, but watch for future events which will not require any money upfront

Otherwise, leave him (her) alone. I don't like the tone here. Sounds like "meet me in the alley" definitely not appropriate in this forum, OK?

Say the word and I'll cancel the meet. I have no problem with that.

[RemieGino14]

Funny to treat a Veteran member of YarisWorld when all I was asking was a simple question, but I'm not trying to put anyone on blast here or start anything, just haven't been back in the forums for a while. We still meeting tomorrow?

- RemieGino14 -

[cali yaris]

I believe cali yaris and why? should stay out of people's business, instead of making things worse.

It's not private business when it's posted on a public forum, about a public meet, to which we are all invited. Good to air out and keep it clean. Are you going?

[yaris-me]

Meet cancelled, thanks to Tomato, cali yaris, why and RemieGino14.

I'm leaving YW. Good bye.

[cali yaris]

^ Someone else could pick this up. You all put a lot of planning into this!

[RemieGino14]

Well then someone set it up. Ill see if I still wanna come cause that's the manny paquiao fight that night. Lol

- RemieGino14 -

[Astroman]

damn yaris-me flew off the handle there.

[tomato]

Originally Posted by yaris-me

Say the word and I'll cancel the meet. I have no problem with that.

Well, I don't know why you are overreacting.

There is no problem other than toning it down with the member who wanted to come in for free. Like I said, there are a lot of ways to say no.

I don't know you guys personally so I don't know if there is a problem from previous meets or what's going on, and all I see is the thread. If I made a mistake, and if you want to explain, then please do, PM me, PM any mod and tell them what the problem is. Otherwise, we don't know and all we see is the thread.

Just to say it once because we've had the same problem before in a different region, in general, just be aware that if you do plan meets through the forum, they are usually for the benefit of any forum member, based on mutual camaraderie, not just for a select clique. You (and I don't mean you, Yaris me, I mean anyone) can't just use the forum to plan meets and randomly decide to exclude other forum members. Doesn't work that way.

You can set the rules of the meet from the get go but you can't just say "hey you don't fit in our little clique so you're not in"

Again, if I made a mistake, you, Yarisme, or someone else, please tell me. Otherwise, Yaris me, I suggest you just relax, take a big deep breath and just chill. There is no harm done, just go on with your plans and have fun with the peeps. Tell the member "no, sorry, everybody has to pay" and that's it, end of story, no need to make a big fuss out of it, or start fighting or whatever. OK?

I hope I made my position clearer.

[tomato]

OK, I just got a PM, looks like it was all a big misunderstanding.

Is the bonfire still going forward?

[tomato]

Well, there is new development.

It's all good now, all back to normal (I hope?)

I am being asked to delete the thread and start a new one and I don't mind doing that but I need you guys to give me the dates and the information you want to keep.

[cali yaris]

^ if it's all back to normal (which I hope it is), he can start the new thread, then you delete this one?

I'm confused now!

[tomato]

Yeah, I don't know

I'm gonna leave the thread up until people decide what they want to do with the BONFIRE.

Someone else in Southern Cal needs to take lead here, just make it happen.

You have interest, you have a date and a location. and DVLINBLKDRS knows a dive bar not far from her place ...

[minired5stby]

Yeah she knows all the bars lol

[Crims0n5]

I'm pulling out of this bonfire I didn't sign up on this forum for childish drama.

[marlondog]

What just happened? Now what?

[jetbtkng]

Originally Posted by yaris-me

Meet cancelled, thanks to Tomato, cali yaris, why and RemieGino14.

I'm leaving YW. Good bye.

what a little bitch, hell i'll pay for him, u need to read your own sht on youre page, learn to relax, what are u 12 yrs old, wha wha wha..........

[jetbtkng]

Originally Posted by yaris-me

Meet cancelled, thanks to Tomato, cali yaris, why and RemieGino14.

I'm leaving YW. Good bye.

U NEED TO CLEAN OUT YOUR MAIL BOX BUDDY BOY, I WANT TO SET SOMETHING UP ASAP..............